Its all about priority!!

Ever thought "Who is the most selfish person in this world??", just look in the mirror, the person you see is your answer. Yeah, you heard it right. We are living in a selfish world, where it is not about the time, but priorities. Our likes, dislikes, thought processes, even the person we live and enjoy with changes with our priorities. We love to speak to the one who is our priority, not the one we love or the one in need. We love to complete our priority, not our passion/

Our best friends in school, with whom we spent our childhood. Even the sun can miss one day, but we could not miss our calls. We thought these buddies for life, but then school ended, priorities changed. 

Our best friends in college, with whom we took classes, labs, assignments, etc. The hostel life is a part of our existence. We thought these buddies for life, but then college ended, priorities changed.  

Our First Love, with whom we learn the meaning of love and care. With whom we thought of marriage and kids. We thought we will live our entire life with this person, but then break up happened, priorities changed. 

Our parents, our nurturers, who taught us everything in life. Our good or bad, all come from their upbringing. We thought we will take care of them in the future, but then the job came, we left home, priorities changed. 

The girl who loved dancing is a coder, the guy who wants to play music is a pilot. That doctor wanted to be a writer and the housewife wanted to go work outside.

We are too busy with our present priorities, that we completely forgot the priorities we had. Take out time to call that school or college friend. Have a reunion. Barge someone's door all of a sudden to give a surprise. Go attend that friend's wedding. Make that hobby your profession. Don't think this time, just go :). Life is too short, you might regret it in the end. The desk you are holding will replace you in 7 days, but the friends you had will be there for 7 decades.

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Last mail for Amdocs

Dear Amdocs,

This is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to tell you. But I had to do this. I want to end this relationship with you. I know we spoke about this a lot and you told me that things will fall okay, but I am sorry I have to move. If you’re wondering why I want you to know that it’s not you, it’s me. And No, I haven’t found another, neither I am going to my Ex’s - IBM and Deloitte. I wouldn’t leave you for another. You know that.

I know I’m being selfish. I’m sorry, but I think I need some time for myself. There are so many things out there for me to achieve, and I want to achieve them all. I tried doing all of that while still being with you, but it didn’t work out that way. That’s when I figured I needed more time for myself. I’m young, and this is probably the best time that I can risk doing something on my own. So I need the time, and I’m afraid that will be the time I usually spend with you.

I still remember the first time we met, I was instantly attracted. And then I wanted to know you better. Although I had to travel 2 hours daily to meet you, I knew it meant us to be with each other. The time spent with you was exceptional. You insisted daily to have morning breakfast and evening snacks with you. We got to know so much about each other. I can’t forget the days I brought you home, and those few nights we spent together. We met new people, made new friends, and spent a lot of time talking on the phone. Coming to think of it, 6 months just seem to have gone by in a flash.

You noticed my talents, and you helped me nurture them. You’ve always supported me and always stood by what I’ve wanted to do. I couldn’t be ever more grateful. And then you asked me to follow my passion. I perhaps took that advice too seriously. It made me think a lot about it. And that led me to this decision. I started doing that. I’ll be doing a lot more creative stuff.

I’ll miss waking up thinking of you. I’ll miss seeing you every day. But I will have to live with it. This doesn’t mean I’m saying goodbye forever. We will always be friends. We should meet up sometime. I know it won’t be the same. Our email address, khushbja@amdocs.com–I can’t have it anymore. It had both our names in it, and things would be awkward. You know you can mail me at jainkhushbu251290@gmail.com and add me to your social network.

I don’t think I would find anyone else like you.

PS: I love you and will miss you :*

Love,

Your Ex

Khushbu Jain

Instagram Handle: __khushbu_jain

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